They don't like it, but you can still explain doing so since sometimes you NEED those extra service possibilities. As long as you treat them with utter respect, and have a real reason for it, it's not that disrespectful, especially not if you make a deal with the Spirit to get them something. It depends on how your GM interprets it, and how much chance he's willing to give you to proof yourself. If he's chewing you out without any redemption possibilities, it sounds like he's going overboard.
Of course Binding a Force 10 Spirit would likely kill you in my games, given how you risk taking a LOT of Physical Drain on the resisted-with-Edge Oversummon, leaving you at bad odds to then survive the Summoning+Binding. You'd pretty much have to get a decent amount of Centering first to live, using 4 Edge in one go (Summon, Drain, Binding, Drain.)