What I took offense at was the blanket assumption that he would know the Nadeshiko was a drone, or would go through that much effort to poke into her node, unless he was going to do it to EVERYONE in the group. And I stand by my point that when the hacker in the group starts poking into people's nodes without permission, it is no different from the mage using mental manipulation on the group or the infiltrator stealing from other party members, the face using social skills against other players, and so on. Doing those kinds of things can legitimately get you shot.
IMO RHat said that right, when he said that the node would be discovered sooner or later, and I can understand that from this moment he would be currious what are you trying to hide...like what...MCT spy drone or something

(as we know that there are such things as traitors and Judases, and being paranoid is something that"keeps you alive"), than, also...when we spend lot of time together, and as he rolls matrix perception every time he enters matrix, it is highly possible that sooner or later he would notice the node even accidentaly. And also...Im not sure how you would recognize that he is looking at the node, since there is no way to detect you are being perceived.
The rest of your logic I understand and I feel that to some extent the mutual trust is basics of teamwork...well IMO in this business it is quite standard to do some check on guys that you are working with (and so such qualities as Bad Rep, Deep cover, Judas etc has its meaning). And like I said...I dont mind to have a tank in the team

If the node I am present in is physically destroyed, then yes, I die, unless I burn Edge to cheat death, like any other PC.
As for this, I thought you first would have to be catched in the node and imprisoned there to be killed this way, otherwise you are free to jump anywhere you have access to...so the only way to keep you locked is to keep you away from signal by some powerfull ECM.
I would be currious how AI character would be recognizable in social interaction...Im looking fwd to your roleplay, since this can be quite lot of fun...

Drinking buddies at the Aurora, I like it! Sorry I didn't post for the last few days, I was away with my husband for the weekend.
Yaaaaarp! Another one! So, my scally buddy...to me it seems your mother had some really kinky jungle experience! Hail to that good woman!