All real-world considerations aside; if you exempt a device from jamming by using the jammer's wireless bonus, then mechanically speaking the exempted device does not suffer the penalty of noise being output by the jammer.
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Again, separate the game world and the real world and only consider the rules. If you do not agree with the above logic feel free to elaborate on how and why, but let's try to keep it related to the pure mechanics without dragging the real world into the discussion.
Strongly agree with this conclusion and this approach (even though I started in with the real-world stuff a few posts back.)
For questions like this, I think one should
(a) determine the most desirable game outcome
(b) check this is coherent / consistent with other rules and the game's internal logic
(c) write some fluff that makes some degree of sense to explain it
To my mind, if you want the "wireless bonus: jammers magically don't jam friendly devices" mechanic, then the ideas above about how the jammer might work explain it. But I think if the jammer is running but you aren't being jammed, you
have to be vulnerable to incoming hackers; otherwise I think it violates (b) above. If you don't want that bonus to exist at your table -- which I think has merit as a houserule, if only for simplicity -- then it's even easier to explain.
But start from the mechanics and use that to write the fluff, not the other way around.