To be honest, I tend to not allow rules lawyers at my tables. It has been my experience that it bogs down the flow of the game, and leads to one player attempting to debate "
correct" application of rules whilst the other players eyes glaze over, they go for a snacks, start talking about the football/hockey/baseball game, or simply watch the paint dry.
WHEN my players have a concern about rules, I make a ruling on the fly, and then research the matter after the session. If it is CRITICAL rules call, I typically take 10 minutes or so to take a look at the rules.
Now honestly, most of my experience with rules lawyers has not been, the type of rules lawyers outlined in the initial post, who wish to see the game run RAW. Generally my experience has been the rules monkeys looking for an edge, trying to pull one over on the GM by partial quoting rules, or applying "
liberal" interpretation of them.
IMO if a player knows the rules that well and critiques or undermines the GM because of that, they should get off their butts and run the game rather then play. Of course the number of rules lawyers that have taken me up on that challenge over the years is very very slim.
