Good thing is, that while this discussion may continue for another month and we still wont know correct answer, such topics do not emerge during the actual game too often...in that case it would be reason to play a different game than Shadowrun IMO.
And when at the table, it is solved in a few soconds by GMs decision and the world goes on. Good that I have players who respect and accept my decisions in such matter and we never had to dispute about rules for more than a few minutes.
When I say No, they find another way. And when they are creative and the idea itself is fun, I still may allow a few things beyond the description of rules. Actally...I hated rele lawyers before I begin to post on Forums and find out that there is lot of details that I missed

not that I become rules bitch now... at least I hope

In fact I like the precision upon a spirit domain in previous edition. I don't see it clealry nowadays.
To possess a weapon it seems obvious to me that your spirit must use a skill appropriate for the weapon or it's useless... Saying that, it left guardian spirit for most of them or its useless.
For a car it limits the choice to task spirit, even though I'm not sure physical or technical skills to be relevant for vehicule skills. Otherwise having a car spirit moving at the speed of the spirit can be not so bad if it has the movement power, otherwise... 
A solution could be to have an "enginered or cybernetical" spirit with specific rules but I think that we would be narrowing sprites this way... 
Actualy the spirts skill has nothing to do with it using its new boady. It does not pilot the car it is the car and moves normaly, not operating it the way a normal person does.
Think about it what is the skill to use your body there is not one, you are over thinking it and nerfing the crap out of it. The spirt has no clue how its body works unless it has the right skill but do you need to know how your body works to walk around?
This is easy when spirit posess living vessel: mind is set to helplessly witness the spirits action, without any chance to afect its own body. Like watching the SIM.
Well, I cannot imagine this happening to remotely controled rigger, since rigger is not posessed and nothing defends him from controling the drone while jumped in.