Yep,
until you make a gaffe, there was no need for etiquette rolls.
Ramses, is a guy who want to know everything before getting involved, and you were holding off some bits of info, minimised their importance or refused to provide them, which drove him mad.
Eight hits is a lot to cover wrinkles the size of Grand Canyon, but until I call for them they just aren't enough. You may alwasy ask to make a roll, and ask how you should behave, or what is expected.
still I need one more vote to go for C option, whatever this was (I forgot

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